The real world will stomp on your talent and make you cry every day.
I agree, as an instructor myself I am always realistic with my students. I don't sugar coat anything, but I will not discourage them before they even make an attempt to succeed. That's for other people to do, and god know their are enough pessimists out their, I leave the "negativity" to them.
I've never lied to my student. I've always told them that the creative industry is a difficult and at times "harsh" career path. I am very critical of their work. I always let them know when something is below standards that they should be at or working to be at. I push them as far as I can and help them to understand what they are getting themselves into, but,
I will not discourage them before they've event made a sincere attempt.
I do not compliment bad work and I will never tell anyone they suck because "again" everyone develops at their own pace, and most important" there will come a time when they have to choose for themselves whether they want to continue down the path of learning.
I don't hold their hands, I am not their parent, I am their guide and instructor. My job is to teach, not discourage. Life will do the rest. As I was once told, "you either swim or sink, the choice is up to you", and that's what I tell my students.
Life is fucking tough, but that does not mean that I have to be a fuck, I'll let other people play that role.
Please forgive my passionate response, "but", as a former art student, I met alot of these so called "instructors" who though they were doing me a favor. After I finished my studies I realize that I was paying the salaries of people who did nothing to encourage student and potential artists. I promised myself that If someday I became a teacher/instructor, I would not be that type of instructor.
As a professional artist, I have gone through my highs and lows and I would much rather be a positive guide. God know I work with enough assholes everyday.
Thanks for reading,
Gustavo